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Master
the Art of Flirting Online
Virtually anything you can do in the offline world you can do
in the virtual world. And that includes the ability to flirt
with those you meet through online
dating. A lot of people might
not realize this. It is a bit hard to imagine since we've all
come to know flirting as being mostly about body language.
Flirting is the flick of the hair, the coy smile, the genuine
eye contact, the light brushing of the other person's skin. However,
flirting also has to do a lot with what you say and how you say
it. This is the part of flirting that can be duplicated online,
effectively too, if you know how.
When online
dating, flirting is an important step for developing
interest and for taking a relationship to the next level. It
involves so much more than sending
a wink to another person,
although that is a good way to break the ice and get a conversation
going.
From there, it's important that you remain relaxed and natural
in your correspondence. The person on the other end will definitely
know if you are trying too hard to make conversation, and might
be turned off. One tip that can help here is realizing that less
is better. You don't need to write lengthy paragraphs. That actually
might get boring. A good rule is to keep your correspondence
interesting and upbeat while at the same time, brief, 3 maybe
5 sentences. Keep your words playful and positive and you'll
be well on your way to mastering
the art of flirtation.
If you find yourself stumbling for a conversation starter, you
will never fail by noticing something you find interesting in
the other person's profile and then asking a question about it.
Doing so shows you are taking an interest and showing interest
is a definite turn-on. Watch out how you phrase the question,
though. If you ask something that requires nothing more than
a yes/no answer, don't be surprised if that's all you get!
A Sure-Fire Way to Get a Reply
Before signing off, tell something intriguing about yourself,
but don't reveal too much! That way, you've got a better chance
the other person will write back because he or she will want
to know more. Once that happens, guess what? You've made a potential
love connection!
Now you've got to
keep the communication going. Remember not to look like you're
being too eager. Part of flirting involves
playing hard to get. Rather than instantaneously responding to
the person with whom you're communicating, make him or her wait
a bit for your reply. But not too long – an hour or so,
maybe even a day, but not longer. Otherwise the person might
think you've simply vaporized. Learning this delicate balancing
act is also part of learning to flirt
online.
And finally,
go with your gut. If the conversation doesn't seem to be right,
don't spend too much time on it. Move on because
plenty more opportunities await you!
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