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Smart Jewish Dating Strategies
by : Stephanie Cook
We have all heard the good, the bad and the ugly about
Jewish dating sites. Some people have news of nuptial bliss
while others have tales of devastating heartbreak. Nevertheless,
devising a good dating strategy that would make any yenta
proud can be achieved.
The reasons so many Jewish mentchs become frustrated
with the Jewish dating circuit are their expectations.
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If you decrease your
expectations and replace them with a more of a wait and see
approach you will really enjoy the process.
You shouldn’t become discouraged just because you’ve
met a few mieskeits who used digitally enhanced photos in their
profiles. Not to mention, your mother may not appreciate you
dating a gentile. Nonetheless, here are a few smart approaches
to Jewish dating sites:
Expand your professional and social network. The more people
you meet represents more dating opportunities. Just because the
love connection is absent -- does not mean that your new friend
has other eligible friends. Moreover, all of your interests can
be professional networking opportunities.
Maximize the chat
room. The chat room is there for those fast introductions.
If you’re on the go and don’t have
the time to send emails, make random stops onto your Jewish dating
site’s chat room to strike up new friendships.
Create a Single Forum.
On most Jewish dating sites, members can create forums of specific
interests. It’s a way of
developing new friendships and potential relationships.
Make friendship – foremost.
Before you can establish a relationship, compatibility and
friendship are the first hurdles
to conquer. Just because someone does not share the same feelings
does not mean that you should stop making new friends. A successful
Jewish dating strategy involves consistently expanding your social
network of singles. Even if you meet the person you envision
yourself bringing home to meet your parents, continue to make
new friends from your Jewish site.
Be positive. Negative dating attitudes beget negative results.
Consequently, always remain open-minded. Give people a chance
by investing a little time to know them. After all, a good Jewish
dating strategy involves discovering the diamond in the rough.
Copyright 2005. All rights reserved
Stephanie Cook writes for JewishDating.com -
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